LonelyNess
Makin' PK Love
Ok, so I'm texting this girl that I'm interested in, and eventually the time seems right to ask her out. Well it goes really well, I get a date with her, but then something goes horribly ary... the next morning she texts me saying she has a boyfriend. What. The. Fuck. I honestly have no idea what to make of this.
In order for me to ascertain help, I figure it might be good to actually show you exactly what happened. So perhaps knowing exacty what was said would help
(Take note that these are actual transcripts of the texts, nothing has been deleted or altered.)
LN: Hey, are you coming home this weekend?
(She lives at another college, so I was just asking her availability)
Girl: I'm going to stay with my friend this weekend. But their house is really close to Joplin.
(I figure, this is great, she's telling me that she is close enough to where I am that she'd be available to do something.)
LN: Have you seen Quantum of Solace?
Girl: Nope. Or any of the other ones.
LN: You don't need the other ones, it's not a continuing storyline. I was wondering, if you wanted to go out with me and maybe see it tomorrow? Are you available?
Girl: Umm, how do you feel about The Day the Earth Stood Still? It comes out the 12th. I think I'd be more available then.
LN: That sounds good. I'll even provide for popcorn!
Girl: Hahaha, shall you? Ok! Talk to you tomorrow.
(Ok, so I'm feeling really good... and I'm like, FUCK YEAH! LN's got a date!!! But when I wake up the next morning. The following text is awaiting me)
Girl: So my boyfriend is really upset that I said I'd go out with you. So I don't think I'll be able to go. I'm so sorry. I really am
(What. The. Fuck.)
LN: Oh, well uh... my apologies. I was unaware you were seeing someone. That would have been good to know.
Girl: Yeah. I'm sorry. I haven't really told anyone. So now you and my friend GIRL 2 are the only people that know.
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Ok, nothing else is really pertinent to the discussion.
I am just really fucking confused. What kind of girl accepts such an obvious request for a date, and then the next morning tells you of a boyfriend they have???
Is she lying to me? Is she just really stupid? Please, tell me I'm not crazy! Tell me this is fucked up. Most importantly, tell me what you think.
In order for me to ascertain help, I figure it might be good to actually show you exactly what happened. So perhaps knowing exacty what was said would help
(Take note that these are actual transcripts of the texts, nothing has been deleted or altered.)
LN: Hey, are you coming home this weekend?
(She lives at another college, so I was just asking her availability)
Girl: I'm going to stay with my friend this weekend. But their house is really close to Joplin.
(I figure, this is great, she's telling me that she is close enough to where I am that she'd be available to do something.)
LN: Have you seen Quantum of Solace?
Girl: Nope. Or any of the other ones.
LN: You don't need the other ones, it's not a continuing storyline. I was wondering, if you wanted to go out with me and maybe see it tomorrow? Are you available?
Girl: Umm, how do you feel about The Day the Earth Stood Still? It comes out the 12th. I think I'd be more available then.
LN: That sounds good. I'll even provide for popcorn!
Girl: Hahaha, shall you? Ok! Talk to you tomorrow.
(Ok, so I'm feeling really good... and I'm like, FUCK YEAH! LN's got a date!!! But when I wake up the next morning. The following text is awaiting me)
Girl: So my boyfriend is really upset that I said I'd go out with you. So I don't think I'll be able to go. I'm so sorry. I really am
(What. The. Fuck.)
LN: Oh, well uh... my apologies. I was unaware you were seeing someone. That would have been good to know.
Girl: Yeah. I'm sorry. I haven't really told anyone. So now you and my friend GIRL 2 are the only people that know.
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Ok, nothing else is really pertinent to the discussion.
I am just really fucking confused. What kind of girl accepts such an obvious request for a date, and then the next morning tells you of a boyfriend they have???
Is she lying to me? Is she just really stupid? Please, tell me I'm not crazy! Tell me this is fucked up. Most importantly, tell me what you think.