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While there's a level of disassociation required for strategy/social games like this and understanding to not take things personally, I think it's also on people to be mindful of their actions. It feels pretty shit to be arbitrarily targeted too. An example of this is LN's death, where another...
My favorite part about this whole thing is after we point out Grass lied to us again, Former immediately starts playing dumb going "No you'll see Wolv will flip fire" as if we don't know our own fucking faction and are just being hysterical for no reason.
I have better things to do with my time...