My opponent VM's me that he is on so I get on and challenge him...
(14:31) JonHutch: hey
(14:31) JonHutch: are you ready?
(14:32) JonHutch: o_O
(14:47) The other party left the server, so the window was disabled.
Then he leaves without answering my question and cancels my challenge beforehand...Sigh